So many times when communication seems painful, there is an obscuring of the truth. A dancing about with layer upon layer of defense mechanisms and egoic beliefs that SEEM like something important to talk about, consider, or be upset about, but are actually orders...
Some of my clients fear that if they use this as a measure for success they will do less than they are capable of. Success is liking yourself, liking what you do, and liking how you do it. ~Maya Angelou So, maybe you can use this strategy just until...
My Business/Your Business/The Universe's Business My Business: What I feel, think, say and do, and where I place my conscious focus Your Business: What you feel, think, say and do The Universe's Business: EVERYTHING ELSE. Outcomes, results, happenings, events. Not...
Wow, it is counter-intuitive, or at least counter-culture, but we get further ahead by forgiving ourselves for our mistakes/problems/imperfections rather than doubling-down on them by being hard on ourselves. A new study around procrastination supports this: Wohl...
I hear it all the time..."I need to be realistic"... What does being realistic mean? For most of my clients here's what being realistic really means... Being Realistic Really Means I will constrain my future with the same limitations I have right now I will limit...
The world is trying to evolve you...Are you resisting or transforming? Here are some signs that you are resisting: You feel stuck You are experiencing mental suffering: Stress, worry, doubt You are scared to do things All new input brings up fear Your life is...
The late Thomas Leonard, grandfather of modern coaching said "Life is about us, and it's not personal...And yet it can feel so personal." We are self-obsessed creatures, with complex psychological perceptive mechanisms that are virtually incapable of taking in...
I'm a big fan of things working smoothly, with as little struggle, strain and suffering as possible. Here's a recipe for just those things...Struggle, strain and suffering... Recipe for Getting Something Done: The Hard Way 1 cup of "I have to" 1 cup of "if I...
So many times when communication seems painful, there is an obscuring of the truth. A dancing about with layer upon layer of defense mechanisms and egoic beliefs that SEEM like something important to talk about, consider, or be upset about, but are actually orders...
Some of my clients fear that if they use this as a measure for success they will do less than they are capable of. Success is liking yourself, liking what you do, and liking how you do it. ~Maya Angelou So, maybe you can use this strategy just until...
My Business/Your Business/The Universe's Business My Business: What I feel, think, say and do, and where I place my conscious focus Your Business: What you feel, think, say and do The Universe's Business: EVERYTHING ELSE. Outcomes, results, happenings, events. Not...
Wow, it is counter-intuitive, or at least counter-culture, but we get further ahead by forgiving ourselves for our mistakes/problems/imperfections rather than doubling-down on them by being hard on ourselves. A new study around procrastination supports this: Wohl...
I hear it all the time..."I need to be realistic"... What does being realistic mean? For most of my clients here's what being realistic really means... Being Realistic Really Means I will constrain my future with the same limitations I have right now I will limit...
So many times when communication seems painful, there is an obscuring of the truth. A dancing about with layer upon layer of defense mechanisms and egoic beliefs that SEEM like something important to talk about, consider, or be upset about, but are actually orders...
Some of my clients fear that if they use this as a measure for success they will do less than they are capable of. Success is liking yourself, liking what you do, and liking how you do it. ~Maya Angelou So, maybe you can use this strategy just until...
My Business/Your Business/The Universe's Business My Business: What I feel, think, say and do, and where I place my conscious focus Your Business: What you feel, think, say and do The Universe's Business: EVERYTHING ELSE. Outcomes, results, happenings, events. Not...
Wow, it is counter-intuitive, or at least counter-culture, but we get further ahead by forgiving ourselves for our mistakes/problems/imperfections rather than doubling-down on them by being hard on ourselves. A new study around procrastination supports this: Wohl...
I hear it all the time..."I need to be realistic"... What does being realistic mean? For most of my clients here's what being realistic really means... Being Realistic Really Means I will constrain my future with the same limitations I have right now I will limit...
