A few hours after a particularly peak experience I shared with my lover, he expressed a relatively minor concern, I can't recall exactly what it was, perhaps that we didn't have anything planned for dinner or something like that. "There is nothing wrong in the...
I found this special episode of Euphoria - Rue to be very interesting in that it displayed something very similar to an excellent coaching conversation. In the show, Rue is in a diner with her sponsor, Ali, and she is fessing up to having used. This qualifies as a...
It, hopefully, strikes you as a strange idea...How to tell if I'm a good person? Huh? I am thinking that most of you would respond...Well, even though I have some flaws I do like myself and I *am* a good person. Good! I'm glad you can get at least that far. But,...
You are the most important person on the boat. You act as the captain's eyes. The captain will steer the boat expertly, and in the most enjoyable way possible, based on where YOU are looking. The captain wants the best for you, but gives you complete freedom to...
Anyone that has done any studying of optimal performance, creation or attraction knows about visualization. Visualization is a technique where we "picture", in our minds, a desired outcome, programming our brains, and our larger selves, as to what we want to have...
Has anyone ever said to you "can't I even get mad?" Have you ever said that to someone else? Well, is it OK to be angry? There is such a thing as a healthy expression of the emotion of anger, and something that seems like anger but is really just abuse. Dr. David...
So many times when communication seems painful, there is an obscuring of the truth. A dancing about with layer upon layer of defense mechanisms and egoic beliefs that SEEM like something important to talk about, consider, or be upset about, but are actually orders...
The other day a dear friend asked..."What's the deal with astrology? The stars don't control us." My response, yes, it all starts in the mind. But every molecule in the universe will be a perfect reflection of our thoughts, so you can use the stars to see yourself...
A dear friend told me about a wonderful free eBook, Human Becoming - By David Richo, PhD. The eBook is a collection of excerpts from several of Dr. Richo's other books, including The Power of Coincidence: How Life Shows Us What We Need To Know and When Love Meets...
When I first considered getting involved in coaching, back in the late 90's, the first thing I did was arrange to meet some coaches. The coaches I met made me sure that this was a career choice I wanted to make. Â The coaches were centered, down-to-earth, wise but...
I attended a Conversations with Byron Katie event today, and it was very rewarding. There is no doubt that Katie's technique of "The Work" leads to peace, connection with self, and alignment with a Universe built on (of) love. Some of my favorite quotes from Katie...
The Enneagram is a powerful system for understanding our personalities, and our true natures. Now, I'm quite sure the characters in Star Trek (in this article I'll use examples from TOS (the original series), TNG (the Next Generation), and Voyager) are not as...
Aha! That tricky ego is finding it's way around that whole Minding Your Own Business thing... Yes, it is your business what you think, feel, say and do...But there are some caveats! - Major caveat: All of the above must be IN THIS MOMENT. It is not your business...
Last night, I met the best teacher in the world. I've always contended that coaching is different than teaching. Now I'm not sure. Being in the presence of this "teacher" changed me wholly and deeply. Why? What was going on? I was made more fully aware of my...
I posted a short article on the MyLifeCoach.com blog, on the Top 5 Backdoor Methods to Holistic Health and Self-Development... These are all goals that have handles...Things you can grab onto and manipulate and try and improve in your life. These are also all goals...
A few hours after a particularly peak experience I shared with my lover, he expressed a relatively minor concern, I can't recall exactly what it was, perhaps that we didn't have anything planned for dinner or something like that. "There is nothing wrong in the...
I found this special episode of Euphoria - Rue to be very interesting in that it displayed something very similar to an excellent coaching conversation. In the show, Rue is in a diner with her sponsor, Ali, and she is fessing up to having used. This qualifies as a...
It, hopefully, strikes you as a strange idea...How to tell if I'm a good person? Huh? I am thinking that most of you would respond...Well, even though I have some flaws I do like myself and I *am* a good person. Good! I'm glad you can get at least that far. But,...
You are the most important person on the boat. You act as the captain's eyes. The captain will steer the boat expertly, and in the most enjoyable way possible, based on where YOU are looking. The captain wants the best for you, but gives you complete freedom to...
Anyone that has done any studying of optimal performance, creation or attraction knows about visualization. Visualization is a technique where we "picture", in our minds, a desired outcome, programming our brains, and our larger selves, as to what we want to have...
A few hours after a particularly peak experience I shared with my lover, he expressed a relatively minor concern, I can't recall exactly what it was, perhaps that we didn't have anything planned for dinner or something like that. "There is nothing wrong in the...
I found this special episode of Euphoria - Rue to be very interesting in that it displayed something very similar to an excellent coaching conversation. In the show, Rue is in a diner with her sponsor, Ali, and she is fessing up to having used. This qualifies as a...
It, hopefully, strikes you as a strange idea...How to tell if I'm a good person? Huh? I am thinking that most of you would respond...Well, even though I have some flaws I do like myself and I *am* a good person. Good! I'm glad you can get at least that far. But,...
You are the most important person on the boat. You act as the captain's eyes. The captain will steer the boat expertly, and in the most enjoyable way possible, based on where YOU are looking. The captain wants the best for you, but gives you complete freedom to...
Anyone that has done any studying of optimal performance, creation or attraction knows about visualization. Visualization is a technique where we "picture", in our minds, a desired outcome, programming our brains, and our larger selves, as to what we want to have...
